From Creepy to Cool: Tips for Being a Friendly Cam Site User

Being a Friendly Cam Site User

Skype sex models encounter all types of weird and wonderful clients while doing their rounds.

Would it be fair to say that most of these clients fall within the ‘weird’ category? Probably not, but the average webcam model will inevitably encounter countless creeps along the way.

But what’s interesting is how some of the things you might expect to be considered flattering and affectionate could instantly send you to the weirdo camp.

Truth is, the vast majority of those who make online models feel uncomfortable are completely oblivious to the fact that they are doing so.

If anything, they genuinely believe they’re being kind, courteous and cordial.

All of which is where a few tips and guidelines directly from the source candle a long way. Speak to any Skype sex model, and they’ll tell you all about the same creepy habits their clients have, which they’d like to see the backs of.

So, if you’d like to become a friendlier cam site user and avoid being labelled a loser, here’s what you need to do (and NOT do):

1. Be Yourself

Right off the bat, the single most important thing you need to do is be yourself. Which sounds easy, but can actually be surprisingly tricky when exploring webcams sex for the first time.

Some guys have a habit of slipping into a painfully false pretence, where they try to act like a seasoned porn star, complete with a fake accent and even more fake confidence. Webcam models respond much more positively to authenticity.

2. Don’t Treat Her Like a Sex Toy

Irrespective of how you view the whole transaction, you are not simply paying for the services of a living and breathing sex toy. Instead, you’re paying for the company and companionship of a human being, who just happens to offer a broad range of ‘services’ of a specialist nature.

The moment a sex chat model starts feeling like a piece of meat is the moment the entire encounter will go sour. You wouldn’t treat the whole thing like a one-way street on a real-world date, so don’t do so online.

3. Don’t Instantly Profess Your Undying Love

One of the creepiest things guys do (surprisingly often) is instantly profess their undying love to the models they date. This really doesn’t pave the way for an enjoyable date, but instead an entirely uncomfortable experience.

True, some guys who ‘date’ the same webcam models for months or years on end really do fall head over heels in love with them. But when you tell someone you’re essentially obsessed with them after having only known them for a few hours (or minutes), you’ve bought yourself a one-way ticket to creepsville.

4. Do Smile and Have Fun

The key to enjoyable dates (both online and in the real world) lies in smiling and having fun.

You’re both there to enjoy yourselves, so you need to play your part. Irrespective of how nervous or uncomfortable you may be feeling, it’s important to wear a smile and keep things jovial.

Under no circumstances is it advisable to take yourself too seriously, or make the meeting overly formal. The more light-hearted it is, the more fun you’ll both have…and the better the service you’ll receive.

5. Don’t Treat it Like Therapy

Light-hearted conversation is all part and parcel of the experience when dating webcam models. But if what you need is an opportunity to vent your deepest, darkest thoughts and secrets, call a therapist.

Webcam models aren’t there to watch you wail relentlessly about your relationship problems, the abandonment issues stemming from your imperfect upbringing, or anything of the kind.

They’re there to show you a good time and provide you with light-hearted companionship – not as a substitute for a qualified therapist.

6. Don’t Ask Overly Personal Questions

You’ll also want to make the effort to avoid asking any overly personal questions.

Getting to know cam girls can be great – what they’re into, what they like doing, their thoughts on topics you’re both interested in etc. But there are some types of questions that are completely off the table – where they live, if they have kids, if they’re married and so on.

7. Avoid Arrogance at All Costs

Finally, knowing where to draw the line between confidence and arrogance will always work in your favor.

Webcam models like guys with confidence and self-esteem – the kind that translates to enjoyable dates.

What they don’t like is guys who think they know best, talk down to you, and have a generally condescending attitude.

If anything, a little humbleness can go a long way, when looking to win over a webcam model.

Gretchen Walker
Gretchen is a homemaker by day and writer by night. She takes a keen interest in life as it unfolds around her and spends her free time observing people go about their everyday affairs.